How can I get curvier if I'm Asian and skinny?

Question

First let me make this clear. Don't you dare tell me to accept my body for the way it is, because I've truly tried EVERYTHING, from looking in the mirror to pills to stick notes to praying to EVERYTHING! I simply won't accept or love my current body, sorry. And don't freaking tell me that I can't get curves and that Im stuck this way, because plenty of doctors (you know, the people with Ph D's in medicals) told me i can gain a lot of weight. So I know there is way. I have that small asian curveless breastless body. I'm going to keep this short. What can I do to gain a SHITLOAD of weight on my body? I don't care if i become chubby, just anything but skinny. I have a fast metabolism. Surgery is NOT an acceptable answer, nor is counseling. I already cut myself daily and overdose on my concerta, and if this doesn't work i WILL hang myself, I swear to God. Please help. I'm just a depressed teen in need of someone's help. Just any help. Big Mac is not an answer either. I eat like the world!

Answer 1

I think you would benefit from weight gain bars or milk shakes.. they are very high calories and usually given to people who are malnourished or cant eat... when my granddad was sick he was drinking a milk shake that has about 500kcals per serving..so if you can add some weight gain milk shakes or snack bars then great.

Listing weight is also good..you know it takes a very long time and a lot of effort to get pumped up like body builders but what you can end up with is some nice curves in your legs and more defined bottom..

lunges, squats, chest press..

also try to dress in a way that creates curves like pencil skirts, ruffles at the chest area, avoid V necks, peplum dresses and skirts and tops...

high heels give a nice shape too... make your hair nice and feminine and some nice lipstick..perfume is nice too, earrings and nice fingernails..

Answer 2

Why are you depressed? Did someone make you feel insecure about being skinny?

First off you need to be a bit more patient. Here's what I mean: Go outside and look at women walking the street who appear to be over the age of 18. Next compare what they look like to women who appear at or under the age of 18. You will notice that the older women have curvier bodies. Some might be still relatively thin and some are rotund but I guarantee you each one of them is curvier than they were before 18.

Secondly, please don't hang yourself or swear to God. Neither of those things will get you closer to your goal.

Finally, I am not sure exactly how old you are. I see that you said you are a teenager. By your writing style I will guess that you are either 14, 15 or 16. Smile, this is a good thing. It means you have a ton of time to prepare your body before it starts to naturally become more womanly. My suggestion is the same as tennislover's. You must, and I mean MUST, hit the gym. Normally I would not suggest crossfit since it can do a lot of harm to your body if you overdo it. But, since you are so young, you would be able to handle it with no problem. At this point in your life crossfit wouldn't be any different than playing a sport like wrestling or being a decathlete in track and field. If you don't know what crossfit is or what it can make your body look like, just google for "crossfit girl" or more specifically "crossfit asian girl". And for whoever made you feel insecure, crossfit will have you ready to give them a very special thank you for their choice words!!!

Answer 3

You're not helping anything by taking your meds improperly and self-harming, and the fact that you're boasting about it here shows you're doing it just for attention.

You are a teen, you are nowhere near done growing, come back in five years when your metabolism slows and you have reached physical maturity, but whining about a body in flux is not productive and will do you no good.

Eat an extra meal a day (of healthy foods). Download MyFitnessPal and enter your weight goals, it will outline a calorie recommendation to achieve it.

Answer 4

you have to hit the gym an lift weights. build lean muscle tone

it takes 4-5 visits a week

an get on whey protein shakes an keep lifting

an eat healthier foods



plase dont do anything nuts. just take my advice an do what i suggested.

Answer 5

The above answer tells you everything. Stop being a spoilt brat and grow up.

Answer 6

Have a baby :-)