hi dear,
smoking makes a inner coating inside abdomen, and on its depletion it demands smoking,
if u r serious to stop smoking you have to be affirmative,,
you may analyse your habit by
1:what you get out of smoking ?
2: do u harm others by creating bad odour smoke?
3:is it at all required for day to day work
4: do your children like it or hate it
5: would u like 2 c your children smoking someday
6:does smoking makes u healthy
7:do u get relaxation on smoking
if not then think of negative points of smoking, watch the people who do not smoke at all ,do not open mouth every now and then for eating ,drinking and smoking.
our body do not require many things for life .
u can start by reducing the no of cigars and try to change your daily routine.
get up in early morning, c the rising sun and natural beauty, inhale with long breaths in open air in front of rising sun and feel charged, take breakfast ,lunch and dinner on time ,
sleep early , do work as much as possible, when u r unoccupied do some good work , play with children , read some book, watch the nature, do some gardening, cleaning of almirahs,stores,rooms,c ur photos of young age,watch flowing crystal clear water , have a feeling that by smoking u pollute the beautiful atmosphere, think your body and mind is made to serve others and being useful for the society and to serve with full efficiency u need to be physicaly strong and this is possible by quitting bad habbits,do some yoga (pranayam if u can understand ,devote 5 minutes time for relaxation : lie down in free cloths ,with free hands and legs with palms upside , close eyes ,watch your own breath, c it coming inside and going out, feel that the incoming breath reaches upto toe from head, imagine a rising sun near a flowing river with singing birds,beutiful trees, flying birds, moving boat and find your self there and feel the natural energy, come back on your body and again observe breath,
do this daily,before sleeping take a oath that from tomorrow I am going to reduce smoking, its bad , its bad for others, its bad for children , its good to say it bye,may god help me,I am a good child of god, he will help me to get rid of smoking,
not to be unoccupied even for a second, do what ever u can do in free time, do not meet persons who offer u cigars, make new friends who are non smoker, drink plenty of fresh water, avoid heavy and non veg for some days, it will help you .thanks for your question.
bye
d.s.