I'm 5 ft 7 and 195lbs which I know makes me little bit chubby. I have a flabby belly and man breasts but it's my bum where I carry most of my weight. It's quite embarrassing having such a large flabby bum, it's so big I have to wear size XL y- fronts just to hold the fat in. The flab on my butt is beginning to hang over chairs when I sit down. My friend, who is much fatter than me (also a boy) doesn't have a bum as big as mine and when I squished his bum it was nowhere near as flabby as mine. He carries his weight more around his belly and boobs... What can I do?! I don't want to lose weight though, I love food too much :)